// UNDERSTANDING SEX AND KINKS \\ If you think that spittin..

// UNDERSTANDING SEX AND KINKS \\

If you think that spitting, a facial, slapping, hair pulling, calling someone a bitch/slut/whore, pe-eing on, etc. is humiliating and cannot be love, your understanding of some sex practices might be limited or outright incorrect.

Now, everybody has different tastes, and different kinks. And that’s GREAT. But if the above paragraph resonates with you it means that some part of yourself, or the idea that you have of yourself and your conception of love in general, is very limited.

You CAN be a girl and want to be humiliated in every way during sex while still feeling completely LOVED, RESPECTED and CARED FOR. Actually, you need all things to be incredibly strong in your relationship to get into those places in a healthy way. We only see things as humiliating through the eyes of 1) what society sets as ok or not 2) what our partner will think of us. I’m not even going to talk about society because you shouldn’t give a single fuck about that in any case.
But, your partner should be a person that can cover you in all manner of body fluids while still having more respect and love for you than anyone else in the world will. And you can receive all these things from a place of deep comfort, acceptance and utter freedom. Having someone cum on your face can be the hottest and most empowering thing if done right.

I guess what I’m trying to say is: find someone that makes you feel like you want to be covered in all their body fluids all the time. It’s very sexy.

Once again. Not everyone will like every sexual practices. But if you ever encounter one that you have such a strong reaction to (« oh my god Karen this is so humiliating how can you let him treat that way?? ») try and look deep inside to see where that reaction comes from.

This message isn’t a personal attack because we’ve been there! It’s an encouragement to improve communication and deeper your understanding of sexual practices and the taboos that surround them. There are a lot of sex stuff that we personally thought « oh no I love and respect my gf/bf too much to do that to her ». But I swear that as you grow and improve your sex life, you then can understand these practices in the RIGHT CONTEXT as expressions of love and care.

So go forth friends, this is a message of love. Let go of your ego, explore in a childlike manner without putting labels on things, and enjoy the process!

« Open your mind, and your ass will follow »
Funkadelic