Here's something I wrote for men in particular. It doesn't m..

Here's something I wrote for men in particular. It doesn't make you clueless if you don't always know what a woman wants and everyone is different. These are just tips and don't feel bad if you haven't done these things before 1. Trim your fingers before fingering here. Rub her clit stop ignoring her clit but don't press in it. Finger her pussy hole but don't let your nails knick her clit. Make your fingers in the shape of a gun and curve upwards 2. Suck that clit. There's nerve endings there. Ask her if she's comfortable eating her ass first. Me personally I need to be well groomed and bathed out of respect for my partner and would feel humiliated if I wasn't cleaned first 3. If you don't watch porn together delete your search history or be open about what you like so she doesn't feel intimidated. She might be like wow we should try that. If you leep it a secret but don't care to share she could feel inadequate 4. Kiss her neck and ears, run your fingers thry her hair unless it's a weave or extensions. Ask permission before pulling hair 5. Incorporate massage and light tickling into sex 6. Naughty little touches in public. Even being a gentleman and letting her walk in front of you and touching the small of her back are exciting 7. Appreciate new lingerie, new haircut new outfit let her know you notice and it turns you on 8. Don't be afraid to moan. A man's moan is so sexy and if you're a non verbal guy during sex a moan means a lot 9. Ask her where she wants you to cum. She might surprise you 10. Have sex without Cumming. Show her its not all about Cummings. It's about needing to feel her and be inside her then when you do cum it will be so gratifying 11. Tell her what you like without fear or shame 12. Brush your teeth 13. Help her take off her clothes gently and dont step on her expensive Victoria's secret panties. Treat her clothes with respect 14. Rub her pussy thru her panties 15. Don't complain about how long it takes her to cum or ever make her feel self conscience if she can't cum. It's not always personal 16. Try to remember little things she liked 17. Use your teeth unexpectedly 18. Even if it's not tight tell her it's so tight and good. It's nice to hear 19. Hold her in front of the mirror and show her it turns on you to see you two together. Don't just do doggy style even if you're a butt guy. Eye to eye contact is amazing 20. Be verbal