

Initiative🤔 What's the first thing that pops into your head when most dudes say no?⠀ Feeling like maybe something is up with me like I ain't what they want! And sometimes it's got nothing to do with your partner's actions at all honey. 🧐 For instance: ▪️ Feeling tired. When you're beat and got no energy for some lovin' your partner might take the rejection personally. ▪️ Work drama. If you're going through stuff at the job and keep it to yourself your partner might start seeing problems in themselves. ▪️ Lacking that bedroom drive. Like when a gal can't communicate what gets her going for that big O. It's on her to speak up but she stays mum. And the guy starts thinking he's not cutting it in bed. So before you start blaming yourself really dig into why your partner might be saying no. The real issue is that after a bunch of rejections nobody wants to take the first step. Both ladies and gents just get scared of hearing that no again. Without getting to the bottom of the real reasons behind the refusals things might just fizzle out in a relationship. Don't be shy talking about intimacy and work together to fix things! 🔥💕