

I'm waiting 😌 Lesson 4. Safety I cannot stress enough the importance of a safe word. These can be as simple as "Yellow" for slower/less intense, or "Red" for a full halt. This rule is the result of all three of the previous lessons. Your partner asking to stop can be not just due to physical limitations. Emotional triggers can be brought up unintentionally and your partner may just need to regain some focus and desire. If your partner ever requests a stop, keep full lines of communication open to them in order to make sure that they can regain the feeling of safety.