Be in love. Text to think about. I really understand what i..
Added 2022-05-21 04:01:12 +0000 UTCBe in love. Text to think about. I really understand what it's like to live with a person who has a different approach to intimacy. And a slightly different perception of the relationship. What if he/she never changes? And what if he/she does not have a request for disclosure of sensuality? And what if we metaphorically outline our relationship, what kind of image will it be? And what if it will also be different, as it were, schemes, algorithms of our relations? What will they have in common? Like a general line. And what else is repetitive? What doesn't fit together between us and what does? What if we learned to accept an unfamiliar attitude towards us as desirable? For example, in our village, everyone is used to greeting with bast shoes. And my partner from the villages of the north pulls his little finger every time. And I think, wow, they didn't say hello to me like that, it's cool. What if you don't need to learn the partner's love language and don't want him to manifest his love language? What if we should learn to accept the other as something new and unusual that we haven't dealt with yet? And to love a partner the way we are used to, and he accepts it as new and unusual? ) And within this, it is already consistent, like water and fire.. Well, think about it, if we love ourselves, as we used to. And then they love us in a way we're not used to - it's cool) So we do not lose anything, but gain. And in sex as well. This is a very unusual approach when we do not create something in the middle of the hospital, do not remake ourselves/ partner. And we just agree on different things, creating a new one.
