Hey all, Just to let you know I have had a problem "fan" (..

Hey all, Just to let you know I have had a problem "fan" (in quotations as he absolutely is not one) on here who reported my Instagram because he didn't like the fact that I am married (!?) so that is down for the time being while I try to get it reinstated… which could take weeks, if I even get it back at all. I haven't broken any of the terms and conditions on there so honestly find this whole process exhausting, ridiculous, and incredibly counterproductive. I don't consider the people that do this fans, and if it is something that you do (either to myself or other creators) I suggest you leave. I have zero tolerance for this kind of behaviour and think the people who do this, along with content thieves, are abusive and disgusting. I will soon have a very large platform on which to speak out about this, so I suggest (for everyone's benefit) that you start behaving. **This page is my space and you play by my rules, otherwise I will stop creating all together - and that is not an empty threat.** The nature of being a fan has changed so much since I first started modelling, it used to be a fun and positive thing and I used to love the interaction, but the sense of entitlement a lot of fans have nowadays is absolutely poisonous. It is destroying the very interaction that you seek. Obviously not every fan is like this - it's just a few bad apples - but it is my fear that these few are poisoning the industry for everyone else. I don't know a single creator who *doesn't* have problems like this. It is like these anonymous platforms have created a monster. Please understand that when you are on platforms like this you are dealing directly with a real person, and that every relationship you have (either in real life or online) is based on consent. I provide a fantasy platform with very clear rules of engagement, and I categorically do not consent to being treated like this. **This is on YOU as fans to rectify. BE BETTER.** Sim p.s. Just to add as a note that I can usually tell when a fan is going to be like this. This guy in particular had a lot of red flags. It just saddens me that this is what things have come to. It really is pathetic behaviour on their part. p.p.s. I have edited this post to include the exchange to show the kind of things I have to put up with. This particular fan threatened to "come and find me" when he was rich (and was generally a pest before that). Saying things like this is NOT okay.