

Life isn't a filter, it's messy. I struggle with seeing everyone's filtered picture life and thinking what happened to me. I'm not fun like that...I don't go out to bars or restaurants. I stay at home...drink on my deck and make dinner. I forget that I'm normal. I had a great conversation with a mom I have never met before. We talked as we watched our kids participate in a ninja class. We talked about the second born vs first born ...husbands...couches, yes 🛋🛋. Both of stated the shape in which ours couches are is disgusting, but we don't want to pay thousands of dollars for kids, pets and just plain life to destroy them. Most importantly normalize being "lame" wanting to stay in drink some wine...or even if the occasion occurred go out, but definitely be in bed by 10! We had normal conversation, we need just to have more normal conversations. Help everyone feel more sane. All we see is filtered pictures...perfect people, perfect places. Let's bring back the real fucking lives...the "lame" people the people that work 40+ hours a week who go home and just live!