Do you believe in friendship between a man and a woman? Ho..
Added 2023-07-20 17:07:30 +0000 UTCDo you believe in friendship between a man and a woman?
How to ruin a friendship? All my life I've been plagued by unhappiness in terms of friendship. All my friends (girls) stopped communicating after they found a partner. Girls in general, as my experience shows, do not know how to share friendship / relationships, etc. They seem to merge with their partner and spend 24/7 with him. In addition, girls are very often hypocritical and not sincere.
That's why it's always been easier for me to be friends with guys. But unfortunately this has a big disadvantage. All my guy buddies are starting to have feelings for me. And this makes me very upset.
I am the kind of person who can get very attached emotionally. I open my soul and spend a lot of time with a person, but I always treat them like a friend. And this can take several years.
It all ends exactly at the moment when the guy decides to confess his feelings to me. This breaks my heart. I immediately make it clear that I can’t give anything more to a person, and most often our communication stops. As I get older, I learn to let people go and take it as an experience. But when I was younger, I experienced it very much.
And now it happened again.
I met a guy who is very interesting. We talked about art, shared experiences and opinions. We talked about books and philosophy. I see in him just a person with whom I am interested in communicating. We rarely saw each other, because we live in different cities. But on our last meeting, I realized that this guy shows signs of attention to me that are not like friendship. I did not perceive this person as a potential partner.
And for the first time in a long time, I felt sad.
Because I wouldn't want to lose this person, but I have to do it before it gets worse.
Have you had similar situations? How did you cope?
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