Are you familiar with the mirror theory? “Whatever you see ..
Added 2022-07-30 10:23:01 +0000 UTCAre you familiar with the mirror theory?
“Whatever you see in me is not mine, it is yours. Mine is what I see in you” is one of my favorite Remarque quotes.
In general, I like almost all mirror theories: from “treat people the way you want them to treat you”, ending with “tell me who your friend is, and I will tell you who you are”. In the last couple of months, I have focused on what infuriates me about others, relatives, friends and just random people in the real and social space.
Some of the items on the “enrages straight” list seemed completely polar to my “I”, but later I found out: if you don’t understand something in yourself, you will deny it, suppress it and hide it with all your might. I think that the principle of the mirror is the easiest and coolest way to work on yourself and every time I see something that I don’t like, I remember the reflection.
THIS IS ONLY MY!
Begin with yourself. Here is the main lesson I learned. This is the only thing that really works if you want the surrounding reality to change 🖤
Have you experienced this in your life? Have you noticed that you notice in people what is in you?
