

Day 4: “BEST SEX EVER” Challenge One day 4 of the challenge ..
Added 2021-03-17 03:10:52 +0000 UTCDay 4: “BEST SEX EVER” Challenge One day 4 of the challenge we actually didn't have any sexual intimacy. It was communication intimacy. We spent all day in the car, which usually means a handjob or a blowjob for Chris. :) I always pack an oil with us for those occasions. However, on this day I think we were both anxious to get home and not super in the mood. Chris had the idea to listen to a sexy audiobook. I read 50 Fifty Shades of Grey in college and Chris wanted to know what all the fuss was about. So we got the audiobook and started listening to it. It was a great intimacy ice breaker for us. We haven't done much in the BDSM world, but both of us want to explore it more. Listening to the book opened that door and we started talking about it more. We cleared up some confusion we had between us and we realized that we both want the same things. Listening to an erotic story and talking about it together helped us start talking about the topic again. We've learned that our views and perspectives change often. To hear someone's thoughts once doesn't mean you can take them to be the same in a few months or a year. I think it's safe to say you can expect some more kink and bdsm content in the near future. xoxo, K&C