Part 1: My approach to training my slave, and my thoughts on..
Added 2023-05-17 00:48:06 +0000 UTCPart 1: My approach to training my slave, and my thoughts on 24/7 Femdom: Just a quick reminder, what works for us doesn't necessary works for everyone. Every D/s relationship is different and unique. Part 1,humble beginnings: As must of you know, I was the one that instigated the D/s dynamic between me and my slave. When we started getting serious about D/s, and he gave me his full consent. I was only 18, and I had very little experience with dominating. I only had a strong desire, to be dominant. And I loved the idea, of having a slave. My first approach to training him, was to say the least clumsy and all over the place. One of the first things I did, was make a word document. Explaining him the rules, he should follow. My first draft was, confusing and too complex. It had main rules, and sub rules. It had a too complex punishment and reward system. After a while, even I was confused with it. Let alone him, and he didn't even wrote it. I was still studying, so was he. And we just didn't have the time, to do something that complex. So I started over, and made a small word document with just 5 basic rules. Back then I would see my slave almost only during the weekends, so I told him I would ad a rule every weekend. This was a much better system, for the both of us. He made a lot less mistakes, and showed more motivation and devotion. At this point in time, we were both very inexperienced. And had no real long term goals on where this D/s dynamic would go. For all we knew, it could have just been a experiment. And we would end up, just having a vanilla relationship. It took a couple months of trial and error, to reach a routine that would work. And these were exciting times, I enjoyed Femdom more and more. And I was more sure then ever, that this was a lifestyle I wanted to live 24/7.
