

The other night when I was passing through Branson, Missouri, a very charming new friend told me that I had a lot of sex appeal - he described it as if it was more about presence, not just looks. Almost like a skill or personality trait. After the recent undesired changes to my body, it was a relief to hear that. Our bodies and faces are never static - they are always changing. If we are lucky, we outlive our youthful good looks, but we still gotta make it work! One of my elders told me that someday sex will be less important for me and that as my desire for it fades, life will get much smoother. To them I said, fuck that! I intend to be sexually active until the day I die. Bring on the drama!