How to find a Mistress / partner that supports your sissy li..
Added 2024-08-10 14:49:56 +0000 UTCHow to find a Mistress / partner that supports your sissy lifestyle
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Many have called me lucky to have found someone like Princess Diamonds who supports me and pushed me deeper down the sissy rabbit hole. And it is true, I have been lucky to have princess diamonds. But finding a Mistress and/or partner has nothing to do with luck. If you think that it's about luck, you immediatly give up on your search and doing your best to increase your odds.
Some luck is involved I guess, but you can increase your odds so much, that your odds of finding someone becomes 100%. Here is how to increase those odds.
1. Work and invest in yourself
Your own happyness is super important. Your own mindset, your health, getting better at these things all increase your chances.
For example :
Buy that pretty dress you always dream about instead of giving it away to findom.
Workouts, mental health, diet, all of these things help...
2. Be honest to yourself and to others
Accept who you are, if you are ashamed, you will not be attractive (unless is a humiliating kink setting of course haha). Be proud of your kink. Be upfront about it but perhaps don't be super comfrontational either.
Say : I love to be submissive to you and treat you like a princess!
Don't say : Lock me in chastity, spit on my face and call me loser.
Say something they might like. Who doesn't want to be treated like a princess?
3. If you are a sissy, don't top from the bottom.
This is the biggest turn off for many Doms. This means you are tellign the dom(me) what YOU like. ''My fantasy is this, my fantasy is that''. Instead say : ''Shall i do those dishes and rub your feet princess?''
4. Put yourself out there, make your profile look good and be active
Go on dating sites, make a good looking profile and put yourself out there! Be honest about your submissive nature right away. If you ar ehonest, some might immediatly say no or skip you, but some will actually enjoy it!
Hope this helps
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