leonelaiman

This year I'd like to be more expressive with my thoughts an..

Added 2025-01-22 00:55:39 +0000 UTC

This year I'd like to be more expressive with my thoughts and values. I've always loved ethical and real porn, porn and self expression that align with my values and my perception of life. Something that really upsets me about mainstream porn that you find on other websites and made/directed by men is how unrealistic and uneducational it normally is.

You could think "you are overthinking it" "just enjoy" but for me, I just can't watch or enjoy something that is so far from being real and that only focus on what the male gaze wants to see. I feel like there are many kinks that can be seen as "unethical" but I actually appreciate diversity in kinks and how human it is to have dirty thoughts but there are limits and I feel like porn directed by men don't know anything about limits, I also think that the main issue with super kinky content is how uneducated people and men are. It actually makes me upset that so many men live their kinks in a perverse way instead of a healthy one because they were never educated and their education was mainstream porn and reddit forums, especially if they started watching porn at an immature age and lots of it, jumping from category to category until finding the most perverse ones. In my opinion that's not healthy and it shouldn't be normal but it is very common unfortunately.

On a more positive note, having my own Onlyfans page connected me with some men/fans that actually have a healthy relationship with porn and respect for women and OF creators. I hope that some day we are more educated universally and men grow up having a healthy relationship with sex, porn and caring about consent and values. I really hope we can change eventually, this world is ours.

I know this might not be the content you are looking for when you subscribe, some people want to jerk off and say goodbye which I understand, but for the people who want to think and question life with me occasionally, I'll be here sharing my thoughts once in a while.