Accusations of racism - Eh, this is so annoying.🥺So annoying..
Added 2025-05-04 13:11:04 +0000 UTCAccusations of racism - Eh, this is so annoying.🥺
So annoying, in fact, that I hesitated to even share this issue with you.
I genuinely believe I’m the last person who should be accused of racism. I respect all our girls and customers, no matter where they come from.
Like many clubs, we have quite a few girls from Africa, especially Nigeria. Most of them are great — cool, hardworking, and professional. But whenever there’s a problem — literally any time I have to deal with a conflict involving them (whether it’s issues with other girls or complaints from customers) — the same line comes up:
"Hey Kathy, this isn’t fair, you know it’s racism, don’t you?"
WTF? No, it’s not! Do your job, I’m doing mine — don’t try to shift the blame by accusing me of being racist. That’s just low.
If I wanted to be racist, I could point out that a large portion of theft complaints tend to involve girls from Africa. Is that just a coincidence? Maybe, maybe not. But I don’t make generalizations, and I don’t accuse anyone without cause. Still, it’s no surprise I get more and more frustrated every time I hear the “it’s racism” excuse.
I treat all the girls the same way — fairly and professionally. But the truth is, different people try different tactics to manipulate or deflect responsibility. And unfortunately, some use accusations of racism to do that.
