SISSY TIPS
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As I know have some experience with HRT and living my life as a fulltime sissy slave, I believe that the following tips i'm about to share might be usefull for some...it's abit of a more aggresive post, some tough love haha 😍😘
1) SELF ACCEPTANCE
I see many sissies struggle with accepting themselves. Not just sissies by the way. Anyone who isn't typical male or female struggles to accept who they are. I used to struggle with this too. I fought long and hard against my feelings and desires, only to eventually lose the battle. You cannot go trough life pretending to be someone you are not. Whatever it is you enjoy, find the courage within yourself to accept yourself and to love yourself for it. Celebrate diversity. What a fucking boring world it must be if everyone truely has to act the same and think the same. Everyone is different and that is beautifull. Weither you like to wear a dress once a month or you want to be a fulltime sissy pornstar or change your gender, whatever the real you desire, please go follow that and accept that. For real, That's the path to happyness. Step 1 is accepting who you are and what you enjoy. Oh... and...who you are and what you enjoy can change. Perhaps now you enjoy sissyfication but perhaps tomorow you don't. And that is completly fine too.
2) TIME TO FIGHT
Once you accepted yourself, it's time time to fight for yourself. Not litterly. But for example, if you like to paint your nails pink. Then paint your nails pink and show the world! It shouldn't be a big deal. Those who laugh at your nails or react weird, fuck them. Let them live in their own miserable narrow minded bubble. What you will experience is total freedom and your confidence growing. True freedom. I wake up now, and if I want to wear a dress, the people around me have to adjust. if they don't like seeing me in a dress, then they can look the other way. That is an amazing feeling. It's true freedom and it makes me very happy. By the way, my experience is that nobody acts weird around me. The first time I went to my local game store with pink glitter nails, a girl sweater and feminin earrings, nobody said anything about it. In fact, I got encouraged and complimented way more... but if you do experience negativity, don't let it get to your heart. Let them be the miserable ones. Smile at them, enjoy your day.
3) TIME TO WORK
Now that you are free from your mental boundries, now that the shackles are gone, it's time to work on your true self. Sometimes in our store I hear customers say awful things like ''i'm too old to transition'' or ''i'm to ugly to be a sissy'' or ''i'm to fat, i'm too thin'' blablabla. It's all not true. Perhaps if you are 80 years old, becomming the next Nathalie Mars might not be possible anymore. But oh everyone everyone everyone can be transformed into a sexy sissy.
It's all about hard work... for everything there is a solution. For everything!!
Weightloss, hair removal, makeup, fillers, Hormone therapy, surgery, and so on and so on.
If you ever struggle with yourself or you need a chat, or you need help you can always message me or come to the sissy market on Wednesdays and Thursdays and I will gladly be your friend 💖💖💖💖
Mwah
Sissy Joyce
LIFE UPDATE
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I really need to go shopping for some feminin running clothes because this just isn't acceptable anymore haha!!
Today I went to the psychologist and then to 2pass clinic to get fillers. (I know it looks like I do that a lot, but I do fillers in very small pieces so that i'm 100% sure i like it haha).
I got kinda emotional at the psychologist.
I care a lot for the people around me and I have some sense of guilt for transitioning. Everyone is supportive but I kinda feel like a failed brother or a failed man sometimes, the guilt is abit anoying. But I also told my psychologist that I also am very happy and I really enjoy to be feminin. It's just some illogical feelings that i need to swallow. She also said that I most likely experience an emotional transition. I know I shouldn't feel guilty, but I feel it sometimes anyway. But it will pass. I also had an interesting talk with my mother. She asked me if I wanted to get bottom surgery too and I said no. She then asked herself if she did anything wrong to me in the past. She started to look for things she could have done wrong as a mother for me to end up this way. ''Perhaps it was my mistake to send you to a school with only boys, maybe thats why you transition now''. Things like that.
I once mentioned to her that I think going to an all boys school makes it difficult to socialize around girls and that I don't think its a good idea for my brothers but it had nothing to do with my transition. She was looking for an explenation. Although she ment wel, she made it seems like I was sick haha. I don't blame her. She has a very big heart and is very supportive. I made sure to tell her she did nothing wrong and that I love her very very much.
My desire for sex and my libido now deffinatly decreased.
But my desire to be a sissy did not decrease. I really still enjoy it. Perhaps even more than before. It is just different now. A lot changes on HRT. I don't even know where to start.
Then I went to the 2pass clinic in belgium to get fillers. Because of the weightloss my face starts to look too skeleton like. I'm happy with the results.
After that I went to the sissy market and helped Princess diamonds with the orders of the day. Then I had to drive home and now i'm in front of my computer and thats my day!
Mwah
xxx
LIFE UPDATE
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Yesterday I woke up and I stepped on the scale. 65 Kg's. A good weight for a sissy. I'm happy with my weight. It is strange because I don't eat so healthy lately, I went to mac donalds a couple times and ate some candy. Before hormones, if I did that, I would deffinatly have gained weight. But now it seems like I can eat whatever I want. I always read online that hormones increase your weight but it seems to me that I just stay at 65kg's whatever I eat haha. (It's not like i'm losing weight either, staying steady at 65kg's and i'm feeling good). The thing I dislike right now is how skinny my face looks. It's not very noticable on the selfies, but my cheeks are falling in. Time to go back for fillers once again... sigh haha. Love my almost flat belly tho!! I think many skinny people must do fillers, I don't think its possible to be at this weight and not look like a skeleton without fillers. Luckely there is a safe variant for fillers. They are temporary and last 6 months to a year. Thats what I do. Nothing permanent. Maybe with HRT fat redistribution, my face shape will change anyway. ^-^
I went to the sissy market and I knew Mistress Laura, Princess Diamonds and Queen medusa were visiting and teaming up to bully me a little. And they did!! We took a few pictures and videos together. It was a lot of fun to be owned by these 3 hot amazing mistresses.
After that I dressed up in casuaél girl clothes and went to a magic the gathering pre release event with my brother. Who now also totally supports my transition.
(These selfies are all made yesterday) ❤️
Oh and this is me 1 second ago at the office of the sissy market (dressing up as a maid in the afternoon because 2 mistresses want to take pictures with their strapon in my mouth) 😆😅
The picture in the pink sweater was taken a few days ago and the one in the blue sweater maybe 2-3 weeks into hormones. 😊 Both no make-up 🙈
This is what I look like on a daily basis now. I usually don't wear make-up in public yet. My outfits are feminin leggings, a oversized sweater, and I have pink nails and earrings on all the time.
Before I do this, I am over 2 months on HRT now, and I do have a lot of pictures of myself to show the transformation, (i'm even growing my hair out)
But it's still without a wig, without make-up, is this something you would like to see? Thinking about posting it because it shows the reality of HRT and being a sissy more and it might be inspiring to some... 🤭
Wanted to do my post after work today but got a headache 😔 went to mac donald to eat some high calorie food but didnt help 😅 hormone journey is so crazy. See you tomorow xx
LIFE UPDATE
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Today I went to 2pass clinic and got fillers in my cheeks for a more feminin look. (Not visible on this picture).
Tomorow, I will have my nails done and my eyelashes painted.
But most important of all, yesterday I had an orgasm.
This was like my first real orgasm on HRT.
And damn it does feel very very different...
It is hard to describe, but do you know the feeling when you keep mastrubating when you already had an orgasm? It feels weird right... well that's kinda the feeling I had with my vibrator wand this and the orgasm itself what more intense, and just weird, i never experienced something like that I was kinda scared to be honest hahahah.
LIFE UPDATE
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Haha, I so love this pillow. The funny thing is, this is a gift/idea from my aunt. She suggested ''sissy joyce'' merch and I said that I wasn't sure about it because I don't want people to think i'm full of myself hahaha. But she told me to trust her and she created a Sissy Joyce fuckdoll pillow and I must say I love it. Perhaps we can also do this with your own pictures. Something to think about... but i love the support I receive from family.
My diet hasn't been going super well. My current weight is 65.5kg. But i'd like to lose a little bit more weight. The problem is that if I lose weight, my face starts to look ugly. Monday, I'm going to a transgender clinic to see what's possible to fix this. It's been bothering me for a while now.
I'm also getting long nails now that everyone knows what I am, there's no point in hiding it.
I'd love to wear subtle sissy accessories in public. If you have any good ideas or suggestions let me know. How should a sissy dress in public? It should be clear i'm a fuckdoll but I also don't want to ''bother'' anyone in public if you get my point...
I have been working very very hard at the sissy market this week, an adult store sold their entire stock to our store and now we have so much new toys and clothes and information about suppliers!
I love working at the sissy market and helping customers.
Or sucking their cock hahaha.
Hope you have a nice sunny saturday
xxxx
Joyce
Do you prefer black, white or red lingerie sets?
Princess Diamonds makes me wear chastity cages like the micro mini locker to guarantee my clitty becomes useless and stays flaccid. (I do'nt think I had a single erection this entire week its crazy)
Everything i'm wearing is from www.sissymarket.com
The wig, collar, lingerie set and chastity cage!
The hormones, the big dicks in my mouth, the humiliation and exposure, It is all mixing together into the perfect cocktail to turn me into a real sissy fuckdoll. This has always been my desire and dream and it feels like that every day that passes I get closer to the goal.
Later that day a very charming friendly guy came up to me and asked if he could take a picture with his cock in my mouth... how can Joyce say no to that ?!?!
Great customer service at the sissy market!! 🤭🙈🤭🙈😂
(I sucked his cock after we took the picture)
I am at The Sissy Market now but I'm always cold.
Found Princess Diamonds her Jacket so I took it.
Please don't tell her.
I kinda love the look though... feels very biker girl-ish 😂
Cute outfit don't you think? 🤭
Today I'm working at The Sissy Market (and tomorow also!)
Oh I have something very cool to say.
Yesterday, I went to another magic the gathering tournament.
For those who know it, we played pioneer and I played a blue/black control deck. Sadly I lost a lot. But something else happend that really made my day.
I got called ''she'' for the first time ever, they just assumed I was a girl!!
I turned red and that was a little special moment for me hahah.
That was nice ^-^
Hope you have a nice Sunday! 💖
I went to a magic the gathering tournament and lost bad!
But that is okay ^-^ I had funsies.
On such tournaments and in public, I wear :
- Girl leggings
- A pink sweather
- Earrings
- Pink nailpolish
I feel very feminin 24/7 now. I almost look feminin enough that I feel that I don't have to ''dress up'' anymore. I feel a sissy 24/7 now. My hair is growing too. Soon, I will be able to make content just like other girls. I could do vlogs... share more about my daily life... Because i'm starting to look very feminin even without a wig!!
I'm happy! :)
This is an example why I like the sissy market, these pants, just like all other things are made from a mutch stretchier fabric to make sure its comfy and fits for everyone 🤭
LIFE UPDATE
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On Wednesday and Thursday I was working at The Sissy Market.
We planned a new scedule and from now on, on these 2 days I will be there, working. When I arrived I looked in the mirror and I was very suprised with how feminin I looked. My work outfit is a black french maid costume and I got a lot of compliments. I actually really enjoyed it. I used to be very insecure and introverted, specificly when I was ''dressed up'' (not a term I use anymore). But I was always afraid people didn't think I look as good as I do on the pictures haha. I have a lot to live up to!! But all the compliments and positivity I received really helped Joyce get out of her shell.
I am very happy, but.. i kinda also am a little bit bored to be honest.
Princess Diamonds doesn't have much time for me and I really desire an owner, someone who controls me. I am ready to get to know a man who can be my Master, or be more of a slut atleast.
People visiting the sissy market can request to take a picture with me. If they ask nicely even with their cock in my mouth (as you are a stranger to me, condom is required of course haha). Aaaand basic hygiene. Duuh!!
I would love to have pictures spread on the internet with cock in my mouth. It would be even more humiliating if they request me to not hide behind a wig!
Besides that I struggle with a weightloss dilemma.
I have been having a few cheat meals lately because I'm starting to look skinny in my face and also if i lose any more weight I think i'd get lose skin. I need to find solutions for those, but I do crave to be abit skinnier and weaker...
Mwah x
Sissy Joyce
Flat belly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This has been like a goal of me for my entire life i think.
The truth is... I didn't do anything special, I just did a lot of cardeo and ate less...
I don't really have any secrets or tips about that...
As breakfast I always ate oatmeal, perhaps that helps...
Oh and one thing I also never do is weightlifting.
I sometimes see videos of feminizing workouts who promote squatting or even doing weight excersises. I want to be weak and skinny and skipped all those. (Squats are not just for your legs and ass, you also train your arms, shoulders, abs, back, core...)
YOUR QUESTIONS ANSWERED
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Question from a fan :
Hello Joyce,
I am a long time fan and you got me into trying crossdressing and sissy things. I really want to try and become a better sissy but I am very shy and always afraid of people finding me out so I always stop very quickly and switch back to boy mode to get rid of all my sissy stuff. Do you have any tips or advice on how to get some sissy confidence and how I can extend my sissy sessions to maybe a weekend or some days?
Answer :
First of all, nobody says that being a sissy needs to be a fulltime thing. You can enjoy sissyfication whenever and however you like. You can be a hot sexy sissy slut one day and be a dominant strong man the other day if that is what you like. It is okay to enjoy it at your own paces and time.
That said... I think the guilt and shame has something to do with self acceptance or the lack of it. If you feel guilty or shame for doing what you enjoy or for being your true self, I think you need to learn to accept yourself and your desires. Keep telling yourself that there is NOTHING wrong with what you do or what you enjoy (this is a fact). Learn to accept yourself / your deisres... It is okay to hide your pretty dress for a week after an orgasm.
Don't be scared or afraid of other peoples judgment.
I have been outed for a long time now and I almost received no negativity. I believe I had to block 1 guy and that's it. Most people have a fetish and most people wish it was accepted more. If people do find out, I don't think you will experience much negativity, but if you do, it is good to know who your real friends are and the people who support you nomatter who you are or what you enjoy. Being open about your desires and accepting your true self will attract the same kind of open minded, free, loving and caring people and soon you will be surrounded by positivity.
If you have any advice, feedback, comments let's hear it belowwwwwwww
I tested a wig from The Sissy Market haha, I love the wig. You can get it at www.sissymarket.com
YOUR QUESTIONS ANSWERED
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I added a new label / topic ! Your questions answered are questions I receive from you, all 💖
Someone asked me : ''Hey sissyjoyce, I've always fantasized about being a 24/7 sissy. But in reality, what happens when it becomes routine and boring? I'm going to come back from time to time to see how much you are still enjoying it over the years. I hope you get to a point where you get dicked daily.
My answer : As a 24/7 sissy slave, it will not be exciting all the time. However the relationship we have as Mistress & sissy stays. I am submissive at all times. Sometimes I dislike it but that is part of my choice to become a slave. Sometimes I also have to do boring things like work or chores and sometimes I also enjoy doing none-sissy things like spending time with family or my hobbies. But the sissyfication touch is mixed in all the time because of the hormones, I present myself as more feminin than masculine at all times. My little penis locked in chastity is also a daily reminder of what I am. The last 1-2 years I worked super super hard on our dream, the sissy market store. A real store for sissies. Now that it is a success, I can spend less time working and more time as a sissy slave. I do indeed want to get dicked daily. But by the right guy. Safety is so important, and I don't want any weird diseases. Eventually I will find a guy that comes and fucks me whenever he feels like it.
That's the dream...
Hope you like this topic and if you have any questions for me just message me!! xxx
