Today, I had to be a really bad manager. I had to dismiss one of our most successful girls from the club – Violette. She usually makes about 50k euros per month. However, she also had a lot of clients' complaints over the years. Violette and I had many discussions about this, and I really tried to help her and find a way to support her in changing her attitude. So...A normally polite guy complained that she charged him 300 euros for a one-hour service (which is already slightly too much, but okay) but kicked him out of the room after 30 minutes. I had a debate with both of them at the same time: The client: I paid you 300 euros for one hour, right? She: No, it was just for half an hour. He: 300 for half an hour? Really? She: Yes. 150 was for half an hour, and 150 for extra service. He: What extra service do you mean? We just had a cigarette, I took a shower, and then you gave me a little bit of blowjob. And after that, you told me I ran out of my time so I needed to pay more. She: Well, the extra service includes 69, licking, and a special handjob. He: What? I told you right at the beginning I didn't want any of these. I just wanted the standard service. I didn't want this, and on top of that, I didn't even receive it. Me: Violette, is it true he didn't ask for any extra service? She: Yes, it's true. He told me he didn't want any of these extras. Me: So why did you charge him for that? She: Well… he had the option to receive them. It's not my fault he didn't want it. If he wanted it, he could have had it. Me: Seriously?? So the client paid for the opportunity to have some extra service that he claimed he is not interested in at all? She: Yes. What's wrong with it? Me: EVERYTHING!!! That was it. After countless problems and conflicts with various clients, this was the last straw. And today was her last day in the club.
💼 Back to business 💼 It's my first day in the office after the holiday. Some of the Nigerian girls were making fun of me, saying that finally, I am one of them due to my darker skin from the sun :)). We also have A LOT of new girls. This is the 'hardest' part of the job sometimes – you need to be able to memorise names and faces quickly. When I started working here, I wasn't good with names at all. Keep in mind that most of the girls are from Romania or Bulgaria, so their names are quite different. On top of that, sometimes, due to all the botox, fillers, and operations, the girls look very similar... So you can't really pick out a single trait that differentiates them from each other. But now, I've trained my memory in a way that when somebody introduces themselves to me, I immediately remember their name. However, with our business, there is one little trickery... Because when you finally remember which face belongs to which name, the girl takes off her makeup, and you're back to the same problem because you have no idea who they are :))
So, this is the story of how I fucked up our booking, and we ended up yesterday without any accommodation. If you're in the mood for a laugh, this one's for you. If not, scroll down for some sexy pictures. 😊
I woke up quite early yesterday and decided to use the time for some pilates before heading to breakfast. The rest of our group joined me for breakfast, and while I was finishing my meal, one of the receptionists approached our table, asking about the check-out. I assumed she wanted to sort everything out a few days ahead since we leave on the 14th of March. However, to my surprise, she asked me about our departure time for the day. "What do you mean TODAY? We are staying here until the 14th of March."
To make a long story short, I had messed up the reservation – I somehow forgot the date of our departure. But that wasn't the worst part. The real problem came when we discovered there were no available rooms in the hotel or any other nearby hotels with reasonable prices. We began quickly searching for alternative accommodations while packing our stuff so the hotel could prepare the rooms for next guests. In the end, we found a large villa hosted by a private owner that was just big enough for the whole group. I hadn't had any expectations, thinking it was only for four days and that we found it so quickly it might not be great. However, when we arrived, it looked surprisingly good and was not far from the beach. To top it off, we had our own pool. So, I guess this little fuck-up wasn't so bad after all, and at least we had a bit of adrenaline. 😊
It's such a shame that there aren't any stripclubs for ladies here in Mauritius. But I have to admit that this is a problem even in Europe. I really wish there were more of those places in Europe...Don't get me wrong, I love to see a good woman striptease, but there is almost nowhere to go for a male one. I love watching half-naked male bodies sensually dancing, it can be a real turn-on... And as I have been dancing almost my whole life, so I really enjoy it when guys dance. Once, I saw a great male strip in London, in James Bond style, with some old-school jazz music from the '40s and that was really hot 🩵🥰
Yesterday's trip was amazing! We ended up on an abandoned beach, so I took these pictures so you will be able to enjoy part of my dolphin trip as well :))
The weather wasn't so great, so it was a perfect opportunity for me to write some longer educational posts. If you're not in the mood for reading, scroll down for my sexy photo from our private beach. How did you guys learn about sex in school? I would like to draw upon the thoughts of my favourite therapist and researcher in the field of sexuality, Leonore Tiefer. She argues that when we learn about sex, we only learn about the natural side of it. Our textbooks are filled with descriptive images of penises and women's sexual organs. We know about the reproductive cycle, how fast sperm can travel, and approximately how many eggs a fertile woman has. But we don't learn about pleasure, the various ways to engage in sexual activities, or the possibilities and varieties. Leonore compares this to when someone starts to play the guitar. They don't learn about the muscles in the hand or the brain centres that function when they play the guitar. They start by learning about rhythms, how to hear and understand the music, how to play easy tones, and how to connect them. We focus on the desirable outcome – we start learning how to play a musical instrument because we want to play or create music. It's the same with sex. However, opposite to teaching how to play an instrument, with sex, we start with biology and don't even talk about pleasure and various sensations. So, I am curious – how was your sexual education in school?
Today, I plan to take it slow with sunbathing and I also need to work a bit on a paper I'm trying to finish. I've decided to write something more educational about the sex industry. People always ask me, "Who are the girls who work in the sex industry?" Usually, most of the people are not familiar with sex workers or sex work – which is completely fine. They often picture them as someone extremely vulgar, with long nails, hair, fake everything, driving Ferraris… or as a very desperate fallen woman that needs to be saved. Well, both of those cases are true, but the fact is that there is no "standard" sex worker.
In our club, we have women ranging from 21 up to 60ish years old. Some of them are married, some are single mothers, and some are single girls enjoying their lives to the fullest. Some really look like proper pornstars – big, juicy lips, huge breasts, platinum blond hair – and they are super vulgar; you can see the horniness in their eyes. Others are normal girls next door, pretty but natural. Remarkably, some are in their 50s or 60s, still thriving in the industry and remaining popular with customers.
Throughout the eight years in which I have been working as a brothel manager, I have encountered so many girls that I would not even guess were sex workers if I saw them outside of our club. Some of them had the most unlikely combinations for sex work ever – they were believers, married, had strict husbands who wouldn't let them do this job in a million years, and yet they still worked as sex workers. So, sex workers are among us, and it is far more common to encounter them.. It is also fairly likely that someone you know, but you would never guess, is a sex worker :)
Last year, I caused a little scandal during the security check. It went like this:
Security: "Do you have any electronic devices in your baggage?" Me: "No, I don’t." Security: "But our scanner shows us something there; could you please open it?"
So I did... You should have seen the red face of the guy when he was suddenly holding all my sex toys in his hands. I completely forgot about it ... But, one month is one month, and you never know if there will be someone down to that on the island, so I better be prepared than sorry 😀 💦
Every time I am aboard the plane, I think about one of the common clichés – sex on the plane. Certainly, the idea turns me on, but I've never had the real opportunity actually to join the famous Mile High Club... Maybe one day when I can afford a first-class cabin, lol. What about you? Have you ever had sex on a plane?
Outfit for tonight Today, several of my friends invited me to the casino. I had never been to a casino until my recent trip to Vegas, where I fell in love with Blackjack 🩷 However, I have never been to a casino in my own country. But today, since my friends invited me to join them, I decided to give it a try. Wish me luck so I don’t lose all my money in Blackjack again as in Vegas :))) ♠♥♦♣
Personally, I find all these questions like "Do you like my dick?" cute but not so important. I know "size doesn't matter" is such a cliché, but in a way, it's a true.. Sex is not about dicks, boobs and pussies. It's the passion, the fire, and the ecstasy that really matter. It's not about whether I like your dick or not; it's just a penis, nothing more :). On my lovers, I don't really care about their dicks or pussies. It's about how you move, how you grab my hair, how you smell, how you look into my eyes, how you can use your fingers, lips, tongue, hips, how wild or sensual you can be. The size or shape of the dick doesn't say anything at all about you as a lover, or about your skills. Don't get me wrong—I love dicks 🩷. Bus just don’t be so obsessed with them and focus on the other things as well :)
Some of our girls from a brothel have boyfriends or husbands who are "just" sitting at home and spending the money their wives or girlfriends earn working in our club. It's kind of weird to see their social media posts with fancy cars while the girls are working hard to buy them these toys. Would you call it pimping? Immoral? When I started in this business, I definitely thought of it as something disgusting.
But let's just look at it from a different angle. When a man makes a lot of money and his housewife is enjoying a luxurious life, spending his money... We probably wouldn't say she is pimping him. I might not like any of these versions, but I definitely learned not to judge other people's lives.
One of my most favourite girls in our brothel is Maya. She is the perfect girl next door – she doesn't have any aesthetic surgeries, fake nail or fake eyelashes, or any hair extensions. She doesn't even use makeup, as she was genuinely born beautiful. She is also a sporty girl, so she has a perfect body. She looks like the most innocent, beautiful doll, also she recently graduated from one of the top universities here… Moreover, during her studies, she worked part-time as a kindergarten teacher.
If you were to see her, you wouldn't even think for a second that she works as a sex worker. But that's not all; she is the wildest of all of the girls when it comes to services. Maya literally does everything you could think of and that is still legal. :D I am sure that if you saw her on the street or even in our club, you would never guess that she is a complete sexual freak and nymphomaniac :D
One fascinating aspect is that a brothel is "alive" 24/7, even when it's officially closed. Firstly, girls are sleeping in their rooms. Secondly, the cleaning staff arrives right after closing time to tidy up the entire place within a few hours, and technicians handle repairs (beds and showers being the most common to be fixed, no need to wonder why 😊).
Throughout the day, office workers such as IT guys, accountants, or the marketing department come in to do their jobs in their offices in the brothel. You'll find girls walking around in their pajamas, sipping morning coffees, and having breakfast.
As the brothel opens, it transforms into a completely different place than when it's closed. The girls change from pyjamas to work clothes, put on their makeup, and tidy up the rooms for work. Everything is cleaned, the bar is restocked, and the office workers have left.
This lasts until closing time, starting the whole cycle anew and every brothel has its own rhythm.
A bit weirdly disgusting this time, but here we go! 😄 One night, several clients began to complain about a really horendous smell on one of the floors at the brothel. I decided to investigate, suspecting that someone might have put leftovers in the small rubbish bins we have in the hallways. When I checked, the smell was awful, like something was rotting. We looked in the bins, but found nothing. Then, I realized the smell was coming from a room...
I went to speak with the girl in that room, and the smell was unbearable. I asked her directly if she had any expired food or what the fuck is going on :). She had no clue, and even after checking her mini-fridge, we found nothing. As we continued searching the room, I finally realized that she was the source of the smell. So, I had to ask her what was going on...
You won't believe what happened. One of her "friends" advised her to take some fish oil tablets, grind them, mix them with body cream, and apply it to her skin. Supposedly, it was a great treatment for smooth skin. However, it turned out to be a disaster, and she ended up smelling horribly.
Competitive fights among the girls are sometimes just on another level! 😄
This is a question I get asked a lot, and the answer is yes and no. First of all – we can't do any type of advertising for an open position for sex workers. Even though it's legal to be a sex worker, the brothels can't put any advertising on job portals alongside the normal job offers. The girls need to find us; we don't find them. But once they contact us, they need to go for an interview with us – they need to have all the valid papers, and we need to provide them with all the information about the club and the system in which they will be working. Their first day is always a bit busy because there's a lot of paperwork, and we need to explain everything to them and make them feel safe, comfortable and welcome.
Some random thoughts from tonight's shift – I just had an entrance interview with two porn stars. That's not surprising; in recent years, we've had numerous girls coming from the porn industry who want to work in our club. There is no way to make, let's say, 30k euros per month in the porn industry these days. However, some of our girls can easily make 30k a month. What actually surprises me all the time is the fact that these porn stars are not doing well in our business at all. You would guess they would be great, considering their experience in erotica. It's quite the opposite. I remember only a few good porn stars who were able to succeed in our club; the rest had a lot of complaints and eventually left.
Do you have any theories as to why that is?
💋 And for those who don't like to read long stories, here is a nice picture of me from the brothel :)))
Another night of working… I hate when I have to deal as a manager with a client complaining about a girl's performance related to quality. Because it's usually a highly subjective matter… After all, are there any standards of how a proper blowjob should look like? :)) But this time, it was a nice, polite guy from Australia. He was banging the girl from behind. And she was smoking a cigarette while texting somebody on the phone… I was just furious, as this is inarguably a very shitty service…
Update from my managerial life: I am ready to welcome two new girls for interviews tonight. One is Polish, and the other is French. It will be my first time interviewing a French girl. I wonder, do French girls become prostitutes? I thought Paris was once known for its courtesans. Maybe I've been reading too much Balzac and reminiscing about the old days.
Get ready to encounter your favourite manager from the adult industry. For the past 7 years, I've been working as a manager at one of the biggest brothels in central Europe. And let me tell you, my job is anything but boring. So if you're ready to step into my world of pleasure and seduction, then you've come to the right place. My job revolves around sexuality every day and I can't wait to show you my naughty sexy world to you 😈
Today, I am heading to swingers party, but I am running quite late as I couldn't decide what to wear… 🫦 What do you think about this outfit for a start? 🫦
As a sex work manager, I often find myself wondering about the official name of my profession. Most people call me a manager, which is accurate but a bit generic, and it takes out the most exciting part about it. However, I have also been called a female pimp, which always makes me chuckle because it sounds a little dodgy. In fact, the official English term for my position is "a madam," but since I'm still in my 20s, I can't help but feel that label seems more fitting for someone in their 50s :)).
Today, a girl came to our club looking for a male gigolo, but unfortunately, we don't have any yet, although I would really like to. Actually, I myself would like to pay for a male gigolo one time, I think it could be sexy, and we could have a great time together... 💦 Would you guys accept to be paid for sex with a girl? 💦
People often ask me why I chose to work in the sex industry, and my answer is simple: it's not just because I'm a very sexual person, but because I believe that commercial sexuality is nothing to be ashamed of. In fact, I think it's a helpful service for both parties involved. For guys, the experience can be incredibly satisfying, allowing them to explore their sexual desires in a safe and consensual environment. And for girls, it can be an amazing job in terms of money, independence, and the opportunity to connect with all kinds of people without having to adhere to societal expectations. As a brothel manager, I'm able to facilitate these experiences in a way that is safe, respectful, and enjoyable for everyone involved. I've always been interested in human sexuality, but I never wanted to be a psychiatrist telling people what was wrong with them. Instead, I wanted to create a space where people could explore and play without any judgment or shame. And the same principle applies to my online presence as well. I love interacting with people, hearing their thoughts and opinions, and getting to know them on a deeper level. Whether we're talking about naughty or everyday topics, I'm always eager to connect with others and share in the joys of life.
