It's been almost a year and a half since I posted My FAQ post. I still get a lot of the same questions. So here is a updated version, this post will get updated regularly.
Q: Is your 24/7 FLR real? A: Yes it's 100 percent real, we do live this everyday. He follows a set of rules, obeys Me at all times. He is naked and mostly chained all the time when we are at home. And he is always in chastity. There are less intens days, when a lot is going on. But the FLR element is always there.
Q: are your video's scripted? A: All video's I make with My slave, are not scripted and things I do with him even when the camera is not rolling. Obviously I have to set up the camera, but the content is real. Some of the video's with Lina, are scripted. Some are not. She does not live with Me, and she isn't my 24/7 slave.
Q: Do you have a romantic relationship with him? A: Depends what you think romantic is. For us it is romantic yes. We love each other, we have a clear dynamic. We live together, and do things that other couple do. He is just my slave, and i'm in charge of everything.
Q: Is he allowed to say no? A: There is consent off course, we have a dynamic that works for us where I am always in charge. There hasn't been a moment where he said no, or refused to do something.
Q: Do you do cashmeets,findom etc..? A: No, I don't do any form of findom. It's not something I could ever imagine enjoy doing. Not to kinkshame anyone, but to me personally findom feels empty. Definitely not something for Me.
Q: Do you do IRL sessions, webcam sessions etc..? A: No, I don't do that. I prefer long term D/s dynamics, with devoted and real slaves. I only do sessions of any kind, with slave's that i've know for a longer time, and that fit with how I do Femdom.
Q: Do you fight like other couples? is there any jealousy? A: No we don't fight. I make all big decisions in our relationship. And they are final. I do ask his opinion about things, and I value his opinion too. When there are decisions I have to make, about things he knows more about than I,then off course I will follow his advice. I try to be a good and fair leader. There is no ego in leadership. There is no jealousy, I love seeing him get humiliated by other women.
Q: Is onlyfans your job? A: No it's not, I do not depend on onlyfans in anyway. I do it because I enjoying sharing our relationship, I enjoy making video's. And I enjoy interacting with Mistresses/slaves that enjoy the same kind of lifestyle are Me. I ask 10 dollar a month subscription, for the time I put in. But i won't be asking for money beyond that, and I will not put any content behind paywalls.
Q: Can I be your slave? A: That should be a question that you should ask yourself first. If you are motivated enough, to serve with the same level of obedience and devotion as My slave. Then yes, you might become My slave. If you are interested in becoming My slave, the best way is to send a DM. Telling Me, very honestly and in detail what you like/dislike and what kind of slave you are. Outside of that, I give out tasks every week and i'm always happy to hear your fantasies or take on D/s. Or give you tips.
Lina has a habit of getting my slave into trouble. He gets a little to excited, and she takes full advantage of that. So they always end up on their knees getting a lecture. And some punishment offcourse.
When you train the right slave, in the right way. Something as simple as kneeling behind you in total silent can feel as sex to them. Even after years of serving me, telling him to kneel down still excites him. He tries to get hard in his little pink cage, and it starts moving.
Happy Mistress happy slave girl Lina is getting more and more obedient, she can still be a little bratty. But she is always willing to please her Mistress. She also loves teasing and bullying my slave. She loves letting him know that he is still below her.
Slave has been a good boy this year, and will be allowed to cum on the last day of the year. Just a coupe more days until it's allowed to use it's caged thing once more.
It's that time of the year again, to decide if he has been naughty or nice this year. So why not use some impartial data. This is all the date from his training schedule I kept from December 19th 2022 until December 19th 2023.
Full days spend in chastity: 317 days Orgasms: 7 (2 of them accidental)
Hours spend on his knees for me: 1379
Hours of corner time: 457
Hours spend as human furniture: 648
Night slept on the floor with not blanket/pillow: 7
Nights slept on the floor with blanket/pillow:287
Times he broke important rules and got a big punishment: 3
Times he made small mistakes and got a small punishment: 63
He also got dominated and humiliated by 8 different women, including me.
Overall he has been nice, but there is always room for improvement.
I had my hands full with these two today. Lina is my good little slave slut. And he is always obedient 😅 I think I made my favorite videos I ever made today!
When I get home, my slave must kneel with his head on the floor. He will then crawl to me, and kiss my shoes. After that he takes my coat, and puts it away. I then put the leash on him, and inspect if he has done his chores right. If not, he will go straight to the corner.
I don't believe slave's are allowed to wear clothes, so Lina has been serving me fully nude with only a collar on. Unless I say different. After she brought me food on her knees like a good girl, I decided to play with her.
Last night, my slave came in his cage while sleeping. This has never happened before. He said he woke up, and his cage was full of cum. I have no reason not to believe him, because he is always very honest. I gave him an hour of corner time just to be sure.
Since I started sharing my Femdom lifestyle, I have met other couples who have the same or similar lifestyles. A couple months ago, I had the idea of interviewing some of them. Since than I interviewed 11 couples, about how Femdom plays a role in their life.
My first interview was with Melissa (34) and Ethan (36) they are from Iowa. I called them in July 2023.
Thank you for letting me interview you, could you tell me how you met each other?
Melissa: We met in 2014, we worked in the same building but for different companies. The owner of the building held a party every year, that's where we met. We started talking, and at the end of the evening Ethan asked me out for dinner.
Ethan: After two months of dating, I had to move out of state for my job. For 8 months, we had a long distance relationship. It wasn't always easy, put we pulled through. We really connected.
Was there any Femdom in your relationship back then?
Melissa: No, we had a "normal' relationship. Our sex life was good, but it was just vanilla sex. We were both busy with our jobs and social life, so every time we got the chance to see each other we couldn't wait to be close.
Ethan: Our time was limited back then, we were lucky to see each other for more than 48 hours at the time. There were times we didn't see each other for weeks.
Melissa: we did the whole sexting and sending each other pictures thing. But it just wasn't the same. In 2016 we decided to move in together, our life was still busy but at least we saw each other every night.
So how did you get into Femdom?
Melissa: We have been together for 9 years, but we only got into kink 3 years ago. During the first lockdown in 2020, just like with everyone our life paused. This was a weird time, we are both very social and career driven. And all of sudden, Ethan was out of a job. And I worked from home, because my job includes doing a lot of visits. I only had to work for a couple hours a day.
Ethan: Luckily we saved up a lot, so financially we were okay. We just didn't know what to do with ourselves. We got bored, and for the first time in years we experienced having time for ourselves.
Melissa: We realized that we weren't as close as we thought we were. 60 percent of our conversations were about work, and the rest about our friends.
Ethan: We both had good and funny stories about our friends or jobs, but we didn't have any of our own as a couple. This felt confrontational for us both. It got very quiet in the house sometimes. We started talking about the our future, and how much time we put in our jobs.
Melissa: We tried finding things to do together. We actually went on the internet and looked up "hobbies for couples" (laughs). We ended up playing games together, board games but also video games. We also were having a lot of sex together. And one night we decided to look at porn together. We would go on the pornhub main page, and randomly pick out a video.
Ethan: We also started ordering sex toys online, and experimenting. After a while, we came by Fetish and BDSM video's.
Melissa: It was clear to me, that Ethan liked the kinky video's. We would pick out video's we liked, and than show it to each other. His had a lot of Femdom porn.
Ethan: That's actually how we find your page Miss Fiona
Did you bring up that he seemed to like the Femdom porn?
Melissa: No, I didn't know how. Honestly I also found it exciting, but I couldn't picture myself being a Mistress. I'm 5'2 and Ethan is 6"3 (laughs)
Ethan: Looking back on it, I should have just told her. But I found it difficult to say it.
Why did you find it difficult?
Ethan: I thought women liked men to be more dominant, and still think most women do.
Melissa: I love how tall and strong he is, but I never saw him as dominant before. He has always been kind and soft spoken.
Ethan: Eventually we did started talking about it. And I told her, that I find exciting to think about her being in charge in the bed room.
What was your reaction Melissa?
Melissa: Well like I said, I already thought he was into it. And I was willing to try it. We bought some cuffs and whips, and we tried it.
Ethan: The first time was a little awkward, she was amazing. But when the moment was finally there, I didn't know how to act.
Melissa: (laughs) it was cute though. I didn't know what I was doing, I tied him up and used the whips. He didn't like to whips, but he seemed to love getting tied up.
Ethan: I loved how confident she started to look after a while, for me that was an amazing night.
Melissa: The next morning we he woke up, I told him to get on his knees as a joke. But he actually did, we were both laughing but I liked it.
Ethan: I loved it
Melissa: That day we ordered more things online, I think it was the leash that changed the most. I put him on a leash, and made him crawl around. To be honest, I found it a bit silly. But he was really into it, I never saw him letting himself go like that. I eventually grown to love the leash, but back then it was how eager and confident he was in being submissive that was a turn on for me
Ethan: It felt freeing in a way, like all my worries disappeared and I could only focus on her. For me this was life changing.
Melissa: For me the way he reacted surprised me, I was wondering if he had been hiding this submissive feelings for me.
Ethan: Looking back on it now, I think being submissive has always been in me. But I never gave it any thought. Most of my life revolved around my job, so I think they may have been hidden deep inside of me.
So now 3 years later, how did the relationship evolve?
Melissa: We are fully into the lifestyle now, he isn't my slave 24/7 but it's a big part of our life. We also go to fetish events, to see new people. 8 months ago I got him his first chastity cage. Experimenting with that has been our main focus the past months.
Ethan: We also talked about cuckolding, but we haven't put that into practice.
Melissa: Ethan told me, that I could "do what I want" if I wanted it. But I don't see myself doing that any time soon, I love him too much. I don't see myself, being with another man. I think he finds that disappointing, but he understands that.
Ethan: I do fantasize about it, and the humiliation that comes with it. But I understand that she isn't ready for it.
Melissa: For now we will evolve our Femdom relationship, and see where it goes. Even after 3 years, it still feels like we have much to discover.
I'm looking forward to hear what will bring next, and thank you for taking the time doing this interview
Catching up and having a drink with a friend, she knows about our lifestyle. He can spend the evening serving us, and being a useful piece of furniture.
I have wondered how many hours my slave has spend on his knees for me. I know it's a lot. I use it a lot, my slave greets me on his knees, kneels when he brings me something. He also waits besides me on his knees, when he is not needed. I have spoken about this with other Domme's, some are extremely strict about it. Where the slave is never allowed to not kneel. I am strict about it too, but not that strict. Sometimes things just get done faster, when he is allowed to walk.
I also use it as a punishment, for longs times or on rice. It's very effective, he hates the rice.
